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What if they overtake you?

Most times in life we are faced with  the pressure to compare the goings on in our lives with those of our peers especially. Succumbing to this pressure is one of the greatest source of stress and unhappiness in life. Life is a personal race and will always be that way, even your unique makeup and fingerprint attests to that. So if they buy the car before you then what? If they get married , get the job, contract, children, admission, houses or whatever it is before you then what? Does it stop your heart from beating or your lungs from taking in air? Allow people to move at their speed, if they are ready to overtake you let them and move at your own pace. Save yourself the stress of competition, you'll get there if you don't give up but just take your time.

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  1. Unknown13 June 2017 at 10:50

    I'm the first to comment here. Welcome to JPM blog. It's gonna be a blast! Run your own race...
    Tayo Fasuan

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  2. Unknown13 June 2017 at 23:17

    wow! really, who cares if they overtake? nice one. more grace.

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  3. Unknown14 June 2017 at 08:40

    Powerful words...thanks!

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