One of the most important things to note especially in these days that we live is how healthy your emotional life is. Today at work i had a case refered to me on domestic violence against a pregnant woman by her spouse. As I checked the woman and baby i began to wonder in my heart what would be so bad that a man would beat up his heavily pregnant wife. In recent times I've seen lots of cases of abuse at an alarming and scary rate. It's like an outbreak that we must deal with. Truth be when a person's emotional life is not in order, that person may become a disaster to himself and all around him. A lot has been said about how victims should safe guard themselves against such people so I won't dwell much on that today. Let me say something to abusers though. We all know that you do what you do because deep inside you're a broken vessel. Broken by whatever circumstance it is that brought you where you are. People who hurt end up hurting others we ar