A few years back when I was much younger, I came across a very popular devotional 'Everyday with Jesus' authored by Late Selywn Hughes. In one of the daily write ups I read he addressed a very important issue which helped change my life in a very profound way. He spoke about how to handle pain, which is what I want to share in this post In life we know that because we live in an imperfect world, we are bound to experience pain from time to time. Sometimes it could be physical and at times psychological which is where my emphasis will lie. Since pain is something we can't wish or pray away how do we handle it when it happens? -The first thing you must do is acknowledge that pain. Come to terms with the fact that it has happened. We live in a society especially here in Nigeria where we have a culture of covering up a lot. We act as though all is well, when it is not. Our cultures and even some religious inclinations encourage us to live in denial, calling it '