When they Hate just keep Getting Better.

It is important that we are aware that as we begin to make some meaningful progress, we will face some stiff opposition from those who would rather we remained in the mud together.

Such people will blackmail you in every way they can, because your success is going to be a reminder that they refused to pay the price to get the life of their dreams and you were courageous enough to do so.

Your success will always expose the unwillingness of some to make their lives count and so they will attack you vehemently.

So as you keep at your journey towards a better life remember this will be part of the package.

I just thought i should chip this in so you won't be too surprised or upset when it happens.

Also remember that most often than not it will start from those who are so close to you.

Therefore the way to handle it is not to feel guilty, afraid, angry or give up.

The best response is to keep doing what you've been doing.

Get better at it and sooner or later, they will give up.

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